Why rude men have succes with woman?

If you're like me it is likely to have happened even once to look to a couple and desperately thinking something like:

"I do not understand what he sees in this bro !!"

Specifically talk about the situation where a girl seemingly rude super ok, you can know it and is completely in love with a guy who is an imbecile, gaudy dress, look like crap and wearing ugly with it.

I know it took me some time until I cleared the deal with situations like this and frankly I first explanation that came to mind was something like:

"Most likely women are attracted to bad boys!" - Just so I could give him some sense of the situation and it was creepy because I was not at all in that category.

The truth is that we have continued long to be completely intrigued by situations like that, at least until I began to study in depth the psychology of the couple and managed to understand a few basic things:

1. For each there is someone and most often women who are attracted to such behavior displaced are women emotionally immature.

2. In most cases those women who are attracted by peasants not perceive that they are insulted as an insult, rather they seem to have to do with men who are not afraid to express things they feel. Ironic, is not it?

3. March behavior "antisocial" and vulgar of Animals, most often, makes these women, they like to feel they have around them were men Alfa, very confident and they feel safe, protected.

4. If you feel attracted to a woman who prefers peasants, bison Bamboo or any bull communicate with collar of gold, means that often you better you become and you turn your one specimen or it's time to change how select and choose the women they want.

Just as new men seem to me that they feel attracted to the wrong people, ignorant, pathetic, vulgar, it is very possible that we might be attracted to the wrong people.

Unfortunately we men often have an external filter visually very strong and we tend to make a choice regarding women by their looks, personality and everything else related to them end up in the background.

Nobody is saying that you should not beautiful women, but it is important that you develop a good filter to get to know and select just the women you want.

If all your experience to know women in depth is limited to 3-4 interactions, it is very possible to get up to 20-25 years show that some women finger and make statements like:

"All women are materialistic!"

"Women want only money!"

"All are attracted to jerks!"

That's because not manage to feel really connected with someone and you try to justify your reasons why you are not attracted to beautiful women.

And yes, there are some women who prefer those men awkward, but as I wrote in my book Had a seductive He goes, your goal as a man is to get to know and you just women they want and deserve.

So often when you think women want you hanging out with the wrong men, it is possible that you actually inappropriate to want women.